QUIT TALKING TO THE OW. I just read your update on my post, and the ONLY way to get on is to NOT talk to her till she grows up and realize this is HER mess, not yours.

While it's doubtful that she'll ever realize that, one can still hope (take a look at SunnyD - her OW faced up to her mess, and everyone is surviving). But there is nothing to be gained but hard, yucky feelings when dealing with the emotionally wretched.

- Kimmy


I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?

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