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#1467789 09/05/05 10:28 PM
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I have been monitoring WH's cell phone for months, and can't find any evidence of C with OW. My gut tells me there is C. Is there a way to C by cell phone without leaving a trail? There are many, many calls to WH's voicemail. Could they simply be blocking calls? Do blocked calls (i.e. *67) show up anywhere?

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*67 calls still show up on your bill if they are longdistance or if they are charged as minuteson your cell phone (i asked this when i called the phoneco)

my H and the OW got calling cards. she would call his voice mail and he would call her back using a calling card and vice versa.

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Thanks, eav. How could you tell they were using calling cards?

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on his cell phone bill-there were 1-800 numbers. i called one and it asked for my ID #

also, i knownow because i asked OWH and he said he found one in his wife's purse

if they use a landline-you won't know

and if it's an incoming call to cell phone you won't know

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Strung,

FWS purchased a prepaid cell phone and would use that one.

Also I monitored cell phone bill and could tell contact based on length of call and the time. It also helped me to know the days there were meetings based on where the calls were made from. I could just about track them on a map.

At one point, he purchased another cell phone with OW and her daughter on a friends and family plan...what a dweeb....I found that one out by discovering the phone bill.

I became a detective for my own protection. Hope you discover what is real. Stay strong...ss


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