I have a feeling this is impossible but I know a lot of you are very computer savvy.
OW was going to forward an email to me that WH sent to her last week. It was in her deleted items. She has MSN like I do and with mine, once you delete them, the computer deletes them out of the deleted items folder automatically after a few days.

Is there any way to get it back? Without the proof in front of his face, he is not going to admit he emailed her. I don't think OW is positive that the email was from him either!!

Suzy,

In my experience, (I owned an IT Outsourcing Firm until 4 Mo ago), you will not be able to retrieve that email on your own once it has been deleated. although there is may still be a copy of it in the Cache on the OW computer (if Windows OS) under C: drive/Program files/MSN. From that point you will have to search through all the files there and there may be a ton of them. My suggestion would be to find a keyword that was used either in the subject or body of the email such as a name etc...Go to your start menu, click search for files/folders and check off search computer. Then put in the key word in the search bar. It may or may not recover the message you are looking for but it is worth a try. Other than that you could contact MSN, they may have a copy cached in their server but I really don't know what their policies are on that. Good luck...

thank you SC,
I planned to forward this info to OW to find out for sure but she said she knows the email was from him. She said that he used a nickname she knew. (Pet name maybe?)
So it wasn't even his work email apparently. He created yet another new email acct (his third one.) Makes me sick.