Undo and I started MC about 7 weeks ago. After 3 sessions the counselor started IC with Undo. We then started to go to a different MC while she continued her IC with the first counselor. From the moment we stepped into the new MC's office I liked her. She has a style that's just for me... NO BULLSH!T and TO THE POINT!!!

So, after two sessions she want's to have a seperate session with Undo (this Thursday). Mine won't be till the 19th of this month.

I so desperately want IC so I can talk about my feelings, but both counselors feel that I can wait because Undo is basically a mess and needs help NOW. She is a mess... but I still don't want to be left out in the dark. I'm hoping that our MC doesn't think that I'm fine and won't need much counseling.

For now, all of my counseling has been through this board. Everyone here has basically been my IC, so I'm not sure who to thank, but I'm greatful for any help you have provided. Because of you people you have kept me from jumping off a building to end my missery. I still have continued nightmares that haunt me nearly every night, but this board and the people on it have been my savior.

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Have you told the counselors that you have continued nightmares and NEED some counseling? Don't forget, YOU are the biggest threat to your marriage right now. Get some help for yourself too.

Believer,

How am I the biggest threat to our marriage? I would think that the FWS would be the biggest threat because of a not continuing with NC.