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I have recently read truehearts letter to WS's everywhere...and though I don't expect it will change anything immediately I hope it will have an effect. For those of you familiar with my situation. Do oyu think it would hurt to give my WW a copy of this and aske her to come to the board?
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Me 30 (FWS-1st/BS)0ct.04 - Jan. 05
WW 28 (FBS-1st/WS)Jun. 05 - Current
DD1-9
DD2-7
DS1-4
WS D-Day - June 16 2005
Found MB - Aug 1 2005
Still In Plan A Continuing Counsel W/ Steve H and taking one day at a time
God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.
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Me 30 (FWS-1st/BS)0ct.04 - Jan. 05
WW 28 (FBS-1st/WS)Jun. 05 - Current
DD1-9
DD2-7
DS1-4
WS D-Day - June 16 2005
Found MB - Aug 1 2005
Still In Plan A Continuing Counsel W/ Steve H and taking one day at a time
God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.
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I think it is a good idea to share as much info from this site with a WS. I did and mine read things and at times did not read for awhile. He thought the info was very good. It did make a change in him to a point. It does not hurt to try is what I believe.
married 21
Together 26 -
OW 2yrs, he worked with her and found secret e-mail account.The first cut is the deepest.
just found out H is a serial cheater - total cut to pieces now- saw a D lawyer today.
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Depends on how deep she is in the fog. Did you ask Steve this question?
Trueheart wrote that letter initially to my WS who was very fog bound at the time. While it didn't help my WS immediately, it did help many others. Mine did eventually shed his WS skin and turn back into a human H again but that took a long time.
IMHO, it is best to share the letter when you see your W trying to escape from the clutches of the WS. It will help your W fight back against the WS. If you let the WS read it, she will call it trash. That lessens the impact of the letter which to most sane humans is quite moving.
JMHO,
L.
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