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Wish me Luck
#1469030 09/07/05 05:01 PM
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Hi all,
Well I have posted several times, thank's to all who help.
We are for sure heading for D, but at least WW is willing to have a discussion (using her father as mediator)Rather than paying $$$ to attourneys (she has already filed, I am about to counter file) Meanwhile she agrees to split custody of our son and I keep the house. She want's to move in with OM anyhow. I will need to keep strong and not get E. It's so hard I was madly in love, but that was with her former self. Now I see someone else. But all that said If we can come to an agreement rationaly, were she can't change her mind 24hrs later, that will be a relief. Her father Is pretty neutral, If anything more on my side so he should be a good mediator, wanting to do what's best for our family. Wish me luck I know I'll still need It.

Me BS 44 WW 38 Together 11 Maried 9 EA 7/9/05 PA 7/23/05 9yr old son + 14 Step S + 21 Step D DV Day to come
Re: Wish me Luck
mntony #1469031 09/07/05 05:12 PM
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mntony,

Be careful of the FIL, mine was all over my WW for several weeks and then turned on me. Blood is thicker than mud and he will eventually circle the wagons around his DD. I think any father will do this to some degree no matter what she has done short of a serious abuse situation with you or your children. I my case we agreed on one attorney and let him mediate the settlement and write the document. She may not agree to sign until another attorney has reviewed it but this would save some $$$ and be more neutral.

Dukhuntr

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