14 years ago today I married my WH. We are going out to dinner tonight to "celebrate" our last anniversary. I spoke to my attorney yesterday and it should only be about 5-6 weeks until we are D. That sent me into an emotional tailspin, just the harsh reality of it all. I still love my WH and am so emotionally attached to him that this just kills me. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />

I am so sorry to here that.. my 8th year Anniversary is at the end of the month and I dont think there will be any celebrating for me either...I can only imagine how horrible this day is for you.

Oh Faithful

such big hugs my darling [[[[[[Faithful]]]]]] I wish I wish he would see what he is doing.

But HE has to do it all now, you know that, you cant rescue him anymore from himself, I'm praying though, miracles do happen sometimes.

I hate these kind of stories. My 8th is the 27th of this month. Hope we can make it to many more.

FF, on this anniversary think of teh good times you spent in your marriage. Those good times have not been erased by infidelity.

I can't imagine how you feel, and I am sad for you.

However if you weren't beautiful, smart and funny with GORGEOUS kids and everything goin' for ya but a potty WH I'd be a little more sad for ya <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

{{{{FF}}}}

{{{FF}}} i'm here, praying for you. Feel God's love for you, He is right there besides you. I am so sorry your situation is turning out as it is. I am still secretly hoping for a miracle for you two (i hope you don't mind)

I recently found out that my hubby has been having an EA with a girl our daughter's age...I had been wondering where his cell bill was, well it came--2000+min of talking to HER! I ordered the previous month, again 2000+ min talking to her, then I added up the minutes to our little ones, our home #, my cell and my wk #--less than a 100. I called him on it, we almost separated on the spot--I called the girl, she said they were just friends, I asked her how she'd like it if her daddy spent that kind of time on the phone with a girl her age--she said she kinda understood my position. Anyway, my H doesn't feel like going to church, says the EA is not an A (haha)and it has nothing to do with me...I was shocked--anyway we just "celebrated" our 15th anniversary--he says he's not talking to her, but it's hard to believe when he was spending so much time on the phone with her. He claims he is unfulfilled in other areas of his life...I know he is, he has one friend who lives two hours away, works (yes works) 12-14 hour days 6 days a week, and comes home...I can see where he has been missing out on EN but he's always said I was all he needed, and I was naive enough to believe it...I PRAY EVERY MOMENT OF EVERY DAY that we see our 50th anniversary...I now would like to include you, FF in my prayers. God Bless You!

Big [[[[[[[[[hugs]]]]]]]]]] FF,

I feel for you my 10th is comming up in a few months I just hope we celebrate together as going forward not ending it.

R.

I am so sorry for your pain. I don't know your story but if it consoles you any, there are couples that love one another, get divorced and end up marrying each other again.

May Jesus comfort you and give you the peace you need.

Gosh, thanks everyone for the hugs, good wishes and prayers. Bob, my friend, thanks for the boost. FL, I don't mind your praying for a miracle.

lovinghimstill, have you started your own thread? If not let us help you get through this tough time.

{{{FF}}}
You are in my thoughts and prayers today. I know this is a tough day, let your memories of happier times comfort you. My anniversary is comimg up next month...I thought last year was the last we would celebrate together...I have no idea what the future holds, but you know you have done everything in your power to save your marriage. There will be more celebrations and happier times ahead.

I understand. Just because divorce will be final doesn't mean it doesn't hurt. Is the whole family going to dinner, or just you two?

I don't know what to tell you, I know I can't make it better, or take the pain away.

May you get through it without going crazy. May you find the happiness you seek. May your family always be your joy, and your strength.

I wish WH would do the right thing, but if he won't, you can and will.

God be with you, to guide you in what you say, and how you act. Be that better person tonight - that's the only way to do it.

SS

Confused, thank you! I will hold on to better times. Bellevue (hi!), just the two of us. I look forward to the dinner we usually have a good time. He said happy anniversary to me first thing this morning. He thought I forgot, LOL

ss, *sigh* I know..i wish you could too. I wish he would do the right thing too but he doesn't see how to have a relationship with OC without OW in the picture. I will go and just enjoy these last special moments with this man that I love.

Thinking about you faith. Stay strong.

I love ya Faith.

**smooches** to Weaver and Kimmy <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

{{{{{{FF}}}}}}}}}

Sad congratulations. You have reached an important milestone, no matter the chaos. Take the time to celebrate your own efforts, and the work you put into reaching this day. D or no, it is a great accomplishment.

ff,

I will be thinking of you today.

I wish I could make all this hurt and fear go away for you. But you are strong and you are a good person. You will make it through this and be better for it.

I’ll say an extra prayer for you and WH. Miracles do happen.

PS: Thanx for asking about me on the your other thread. You are one of the reasons this place is so addictive, lol.