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Plan B and Snail mail
#1469570 09/09/05 08:42 AM
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I've gone into Plan B but WH's mail is still be delivered to my house. Should I enter a change of address for him, let his mail pile up in a box here, or what?

Suggestions please?

BS: 37 (me)
WH: 35
D-Day: 6/10/05
Plan A'd from a distance - WH moved out
Plan B started: 10/04/05
Plan B fell apart: 10/14/05
Back on the Plan B pony 10/23/05
Baby stepping in recovery since 11/06/05
Re: Plan B and Snail mail
StopTheWorldPls #1469571 09/09/05 07:56 PM
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I'm in the same boat. My WW comes to the house to pick up her mail. I suggest you look at mail that comes in and make sure that if it is a bill that will bite you if not paid, you take care of it, by getting him to pay it or paying it yourself. Otherwise, get a cardboard box, put it on the floor and drop it in. If it is something important like his cell phone bill, don't snoop, just stuff it in the box below the junk mail (kidding). Just drop it in. Don't open his mail, unless it is something like rent/mortgage, water, garbage, electricity, gas, etc. Plan B means you have to act like you really are not that interested in his new life, but you are very interested in your own new life.

Married 1979 WW's EA begins 03/2000 WW'S PA 06/03/2000 DDAY 07/03/2000 WW's DDAY - He has another GF! 04/2001 Reconciliation 04/2001 DDAY - renewed contact 07/09/2003 WW's DDAY - He has another GF 10/2003 DDAY - renewed contact 08/31/2005 I asked WW to moved out 09/02/2005 WW moved out 09/06/2005 She cried. I didn't.

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