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My wife of two years was a virgin when I married her. She was ok with this then but now she says she can't shake the curiousity of experiencing other men sexually. I don't know what to do and its starting to hurt our marriage. What do I do?
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Welcome to MB. 1st of all, please read the concepts section above and get 3 books:
1. Surviving an Affair - Dr. Harley
2. His needs/Her needs - Dr. Harley
3. Love must be tough - Dr James Dobson
Read all 3 of them. Take the EN Questionnaire in the concepts section. Then call Jennifer C @ MB for some phone counseling ASAP.
Need to get you in plan A ASAP. Your W may have already stepped over the boundary. Be prepared for more babble. Learn how to dicpher and react to such babble.
take care,
L.
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Already took EN with her. Why would she bring it up when we talk so much if she was already having an affair? Wouldn't she want it to be the last thing on my mind?
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WS do strange things. Go do the rest of your assignment. Pray for a clear mind, calm heart and lots of patience.
take care,
L.
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Why would she bring it up when we talk so much if she was already having an affair? Wouldn't she want it to be the last thing on my mind? When a spouse brings up this kind of topic to his/her spouse it MAY be a huge red flag that he/she MAY be indeed having one and that he/she may be trying to negotiate for a so called 'open' marriage so that the affair can be 'blessed' by the betrayed spouse. I would suggest that you do some digging around to find out once and for all if she is or isn't having an affair. TMCM
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I don't mean to HJ, but I just wanted to say hi to TMCM. I was here about 3 yrs ago and he was here. TMCM, I know you posted alot to Rookie, and were quite instrumental in helping him and many, do you remember him? How did he and his son end up?
If I am wrong to ask this here, please correct me.
Lady
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