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I may be in the wrong forum for my question in that I have moved on from ws and am in a new relationship. However, I have received good info here in the past. With regards to exposing.......my ws to this day has not been open and honest with our son who would like to see reconciliation. I have given him information freely and honestly about the pblms between myself and my ws while trying not to appear to be maliciously attacking her. A terrible bit of information has come to light. My WS is actively buying drugs (Crack, and Pot) which may be for her boyfriend or for her, or for both. Does our son need to know this information which will probably shock him but my put his mother in a different perspective so that he too can cope with his parents separation.
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How old is your son?
With whom is he living?
How do you know that your WS is purchasing illegal substances?
If this is true, you need to protect your son. I would pass on this information to a law enforcer.
Me BS 44
XH 45
M 20 years
D19
D12
DDay 11.29.04
Separated 12.29.04
Plan A 24.02.05
Plan B 10.9.05
Plan D 2.2.06
Divorce 13.6.06
OW - former friend and D12's x-godmother (Skunkypoo)
OWH - philander, XH's former best friend (still shares skunkypoo with XH)
Anger = drinking a rat poison and waiting/wishing the rat would notice you drink it and the rat die from it.
Redhat
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Son is 25 and in Med School......when he comes home he lives with me......visits his mother. An friend who knows the drug dealer passed this info on to me. I know that it seems weird to be concerned about my son who is a well educated adult .....but he is my son first.
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Your child needs t/b protected. This means proper exposure. Is it possible for you t/d the exposure with a 3rd and respected person(s) present?
It w/b sad to know his mom has stooped to such measures but it w/b for his protection if he knows about her habits so he can stay away or learn to deal with her from a distance until it is safe to be around her.
Not exposing w/b putting your son at great risk for his health and career.
L.
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Orchid.....thankx I'll do that.
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