I have just confirmed that the short lived A my wife has had is over, she still lives out of the house and I dont know what to do next.

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Well, that is very good news. Now you will have to wait and see what her next move is.

Be patient and see if she makes any noises about coming home.

are you 100% certain the A is over?

(only asking cause i thought and heard the same thing but now know it was NOT TRUE)

I know it seems like because the A is over right now, it very well may start up soon, that Plans A and B may not apply to you. Wrong, they still apply. Plan A and B address the following question very well:

Is your spouse in or out of marriage?

You want to know what to do? Plan A or B. Not sure which one you should do? Write about it on this board and/or make an appointment with a Harley.I really recommend making an appointment. I find strength in receiving advice from someone in authority, especially when I am confused.

My WH needed time away from home to sort things out. He moved out. The A was over, but not out of his system. They got back together and hid it from me very well. We didn't even tell family and friends that he had left me. My line of thinking was to make the path home as easy as possible. Now I wonder if I enabled his distructive behavior. I was scared and confused.