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i am waiting with anxiety to see what will happen DELETED #1473134 09/14/05 12:31 PM
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Re: i am waiting with anxiety to see what will happen pinetree #1473135 09/14/05 12:34 PM
Joined: Jul 2004 Posts: 11,539 la la land aka land of fruits ... F faithful follower Member
faithful follower Member F Joined: Jul 2004 Posts: 11,539 la la land aka land of fruits ...	Does OW work with your WH? Can you give us a little more background? Faith me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49 DS 30 DD 21 DS 15 OCDS 8

Re: i am waiting with anxiety to see what will happen DELETED faithful follower #1473136 09/14/05 12:42 PM
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Re: i am waiting with anxiety to see what will happen pinetree #1473137 09/14/05 12:44 PM
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mflake Member M Joined: Jul 2005 Posts: 270	So what's the point of sending the stuff to his work if the OW isn't there? I'm confused. How about: how old are you guys? any kids? how long have you been married? BS (me) 36 FWW 32 DD 5 DS 2 D-Day & Exposure 4/3/05 D-day #2 Early June '05 In Recovery

Re: i am waiting with anxiety to see what will happen mflake #1473138 09/14/05 12:50 PM
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pinetree Member P Joined: Sep 2005 Posts: 70	hi, we are both end of 30. we have no kids, and have been married nearly 3 years. i thought maybe if his leader and colleage know my WH' affair would also form some pressure on him, because anyway something brough under the light, however i am still not sure what will happen, i am so worried now!

Re: i am waiting with anxiety to see what will happen pinetree #1473139 09/14/05 12:55 PM
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pinetree Member P Joined: Sep 2005 Posts: 70	if this letter does not work, what should i do it? it will simply hurt my WH. He will mad at me for sure since he knew that i know he does not like this leader. should i tomorrow call this leader to return the letter back to me before opening it? Please give me some advice!! Have i done a wrong thing towards this issue? Last edited by pinetree; 09/14/05 01:04 PM.

Re: i am waiting with anxiety to see what will happen DELETED pinetree #1473140 09/14/05 01:10 PM
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Re: i am waiting with anxiety to see what will happen pinetree #1473141 09/14/05 01:13 PM
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mflake Member M Joined: Jul 2005 Posts: 270	Ok, calm down. I have no experience with sending letters to bosses. You should try to get the letter back, then work on exposing your H to family and friends. Read about Plan A here, and try to implement it. Expect your WH to be mad at your exposure, but since OW doesn't work with him, it's not really his supervisor's business (unless he's in the priesthood!). BS (me) 36 FWW 32 DD 5 DS 2 D-Day & Exposure 4/3/05 D-day #2 Early June '05 In Recovery

Re: i am waiting with anxiety to see what will happen mflake #1473142 09/14/05 01:18 PM
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pinetree Member P Joined: Sep 2005 Posts: 70	now i am so worrying about , maybe i can not get the letter back, because i send it via registered letter , and have no sending address on it. oh, what should i do ?

Re: i am waiting with anxiety to see what will happen pinetree #1473143 09/14/05 01:40 PM
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faithful follower Member F Joined: Jul 2004 Posts: 11,539 la la land aka land of fruits ...	Don't panic if you cannot get the letter back. Go ahead and expose to family and friends. Do you know OW's name so you can find her H? How about her phone number? Faith me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49 DS 30 DD 21 DS 15 OCDS 8

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