Has anyone read any books that have helped them deal with what has happened to them? I have read his needs her needs,SAA,and torn asunder.Any other out there.

Thanks
#1mom

Mom,

The Harley's also recommend "Not Just Friends" by Shirley Glass. Also one of my very favorites of all times is by Willard Harley called "Give & Take". It deals with the policy of joint agreement!

I am reading "Rebuilding when your relationship ends" and I am finding it helpful. I am not divorced yet and I still see and talk to my H. I don't know where my R is at right now, but this book is quite helpful. I think it could be helpful for you even if you are now in recovery... But it definitely could help if you are in plan B. It is well written, thoughtful, it speaks to me. It covers the stages you go through in rebuilding your life: doubt, fear, anger, and eventually moves to the more positive like love. It helps reading about where I am at.

I am also reading a book on increasing intimacy in your R. Even though I may be headed towards D, I find it quite nice. As I grow it is nice to read about what a healthy relationship is like, and helps me see what it is I want from the R and how I can have that. It is called "Naked Intimacy". It is really well written and is very good!

There is also, divorce busting and divorce remedy, I have not read them cover to cover but they have some nice suggestions.

Daisy

After the Affair is good especially for the FWS.

BUMP