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Please see my post and let me know what you think- I flipped out when he told me .
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Cooking dinner-will be back later....
I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.
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I don't have much time tonight....
I still say TIME AND PATIENCE, though. It took a full 6 months for my FWH to even BEGIN to really act like himself again.
The value of PLAN B is that I was the stronger, more emotionally healthy one of us and I was a mess... In your case, both of you are coming out of As..
TIME is necessary for your healing...
I would think in terms of his ENs...What are his primary ENs? I find with my H that the more I give, the more I get... I focus on meeting his primary ENs and then he reciprocates...
Make sense?
I saw this and will use this advice. I will just be like you said his en (when he gives them) and wait it out.
I think i am going to ask my mil or my sister to take care of kids for the weekend and just drive. I want out of the city and the house for right now.
Im not even concentrating on my schoolwork this week.
I know your busy mimi- talk to you later- thanks
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i just read your story thread and i found a lot on plan b that really explains and details- i will not write plan b letter as letters dont work for him - but the other info yes.
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