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Yes, I am pregant now still--five months along. He didn't care that I slept on the couch. He knows it is high risk, too, which is why he is saying he wants to file after I have the baby. (I have toxemia and PBS this time around). All this stress is not good for you or the baby. What are you doing to take care of yourself? Your WH will be angry with exposure...keep posting and the wiseones will help you through it. Exposure will also bring you relief to expose the dirty little secret to the light of day. What kind of support do you have in real life?
aka-confused42
BS-45 me
WH-42
DS-14 & DD-12
together 21 yrs, married 18.5yrs
"I love you but not IN love with you" speech 6/3/04
D-Day 2/25/05; WH moved out 3/15/05 & back too soon 3/22/05...He left again 5/8/06
5/25/06 Plan B.....NC letter 6/18/06
Recovery finally began Jan 2007
We are IN love again!!!Sept 2007
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I really appreciate the replies. I have been browsing the boards for a few weeks (which is what gave me the confidence to call his bluff about calling the OWH). Have you ever asked yourself why you'd want to be with someone who would do this to you? I feel guilty even thinking those thoughts.
BW-me, 29
XH, 29
3 sons-now 6,4,2
Divorce final--Sept. 27, 2006.
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Yep! and then I look at my kids. If I were single I would have been long gone.
aka-confused42
BS-45 me
WH-42
DS-14 & DD-12
together 21 yrs, married 18.5yrs
"I love you but not IN love with you" speech 6/3/04
D-Day 2/25/05; WH moved out 3/15/05 & back too soon 3/22/05...He left again 5/8/06
5/25/06 Plan B.....NC letter 6/18/06
Recovery finally began Jan 2007
We are IN love again!!!Sept 2007
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I'm so sorry for your pain.........I've seen too much of that here and it breaks my heart that you are dealing with this while pregnant. Take care of yourself and try to remember that the man you see now isn't the same man you love - he is in a self-destructive cycle right now and he probably doesn't even know who he is.
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Rest up, hon, and take care of that baby, yourself and your kids. Please realize that the chances of your husband coming back to the marriage are excellent. We will help you through this.
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Thanks everyone. I'm going to call it a night. I teach pre-k in the morning and still have to do lesson plans. I'll come back tomorrow night when the kids are in bed.
Thanks again.
BW-me, 29
XH, 29
3 sons-now 6,4,2
Divorce final--Sept. 27, 2006.
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aka-confused42
BS-45 me
WH-42
DS-14 & DD-12
together 21 yrs, married 18.5yrs
"I love you but not IN love with you" speech 6/3/04
D-Day 2/25/05; WH moved out 3/15/05 & back too soon 3/22/05...He left again 5/8/06
5/25/06 Plan B.....NC letter 6/18/06
Recovery finally began Jan 2007
We are IN love again!!!Sept 2007
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