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Nerves running to rapid to sleep. H stated tonight he wnted to be with ow. Maybe i made huge mistake but I called other woman. Found out contact has not ever stopped an he has told her same things he tells me . He loves her an wants to be with her.Told h to make a choice an im not sure what he will do. I just cant take this pain anymore. How long do u do plan A before moving to plan B??? IM getting so frustrated here.
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Joined: Jan 2001
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Why do you have to wait for the WS to choose? Do you realize you are prolonging your own agony?
L.
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Joined: Jun 2005
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Orchid is right about this.
I saw a Dr. phil show that involved a lady who was waiting for her WS to choose. Dr. phil asked her "why does he get to choose?" and also asked why her self esteem was so low that she was essentially sitting there waving her hand saying "pick me! pick me!" His point was that you have to be strong and set boundaries.
Just because you get picked doesn't mean OW will disappear either. Been there, still doing that.
ewon
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I agree the choice is ultimately yours.
Off topic here...what state are you in I grew up in Dekalb, IL.
LT
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