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Yes, Today marks 21 years. I told my WH this morning that
he has been married to me 1/2 his life (he was 21 and I
was 18) He just came out of the fog a few days ago and
D day was about 3 weeks ago - although I had suspessions
over the whole summer. I told him that I was sad because
we have had a horrible year and we shouldn't celebrate....
he wants to. He has been so x-tra kind to me this week
(except for a few comments of comparison) I wonder how long
this will last or if it is only temporary. I wish I could
see in the future....I am going to see a pastor at my
church next week, as I haven't been able to speak to anyone
about this whole ordeal. Is is normal for me the FS to be
somewhat happy one moment and want to cry the next ????
Thanks,
Chat
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I hope that is normal, because that sums up my life right now! My wedding anniversary was yesterday, d-day was 3 weeks ago. The timimg stinks, but I survived through the day.
Big hug!
Me-41 BS (FWS) DH-41 WS (FBS) 2DD's- 10 and 12 Married 15 years Separated for 2 years after my A Reconciled for 1 year before his A D-day for his A 8/23/05 WH moved out 9/16/05 Divorce final 1/23/07 Affair ended or month or so later My Story
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Happy 21 year anniversary! May you have many, many more.
Faith
me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49
DS 30
DD 21
DS 15
OCDS 8
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