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I'm in. Thanks TooLost. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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thank you all, we just got back from church. I guess I shouldn't post here anymore. I want to tell you all so much.... bbqdad
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I've just asked Justuss to add me as well.
bbq, we're going to get you and your wife through this.
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bbqdad, make sure you email JustUss2@aol.com as well to get added to your own support group! Just waiting to hear from JustUss on the emails - thanks all!
BW 43 me FWH 39 M 1992; DD 18. 13 OC 8-05 - no contact In recovery 8 years
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mss bbq just signed up too!
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Gosh and I thought I was pretty bad with the lovebusting- this is horrible coming from a Faithful Wife who is in a similar situation, I really thought you had some hope from your first few posts but now you have really screwed up and it will take major repairing.If you are smart (which I am starting to seriously doubt) take the advice from the longtimers here they are knowledgable.
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Welcome mrs bbq. I'm so sorry that you are going through all of this. We will do our best to help you. I think your husband DOES want his marriage. He is still somewhat foggy, which is to be expected.
I know how miserable you are right now, but I promise you it does get better, and you can have a marriage that is better than before.
Hang in there. We are all pulling for you.
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You know how you sometimes just get "the feeling" when you read certain stories or some posters----that feeling that THIS is a couple that's gonna "make it."
I've got that feeling with you two, Mr & Mrs bbq. You've already had some great advice and some of the BEST helping you. If you seriously dig your heels in and work through this, YOU CAN MAKE IT!!!!
Besides, my feelings usually aren't wrong. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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I was just wondering how things were working out between bbq and his family. I read with interest his story and was hoping for the best.
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Kentoe, I don't feel I can say much else in a place where the OW may lurk (or frankly, you may be OW), but I will report that things are going very well for the BBQ's! They are a wonderful couple.
BW 43 me FWH 39 M 1992; DD 18. 13 OC 8-05 - no contact In recovery 8 years
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