my ww do seem to sit in two boats, this OM for the purpose of EN for her, and me. of course , since she fell in love with this guy, she do not want get EN from me any longer,however she do hope i could live by her, because
my wife can not visit this guy quite often, since both of them work at different place.
but my wife deleveoped a very strong EA with him, every day she called him two - three times.
Every week my wife could have chance to see him one or two days, but they could not live together due to the workplace.
However my wife seem very satisfied with this condition, she would like to meet him one or two time per week, and spending several hours with him there, and then drive back to home, and she know i m always at home waiting for her, and i do think she knew i love her. but she pretend that i do not love her.
I have tried to use plan a for about one month, but did not seem work, because i still know she contact with this guy via telephone every day.

I plan to move to plan B, however in my case i do know if i leave her, she still only have one or two days time to visit him and spend several hours there and go back at the same day beause of work for the next day.

Because before her affair, i really behavor very bad to her, often ignore her. so i suppose she must be so supprised when i am trying to change myself, however no matter what i do for her, she did not pay much attention to it.
now she behave just like the way that i did to her before.

If the plan A does not work in the end? Plan B will work? since they will not live together , if they do , only for a couple days, so i mean it is hard for them to faults from each other.

Any suggestion, please

so i would like to get the advice , should I contince PLAN A?