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I just wanted to thank all of you that helped me to expose to o/w's administrator. You have all helped so much. I have lived my life crippled. Crippled with the fear of the unknown, and fear to change. Thank you all for giving me encouragement and helping me achieve the courage to do what needed to be done. You all are the best. Gratefully, K.D's Heartbreak <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
In the end, I have nothing to lose but everything to gain, by trying to save my marriage.
Me, betrayed wife 46
Former Wandering Husband, 51 E/A 2005
28 years of marriage
DD 26, DS 24
O/W aka, Rat 29, A-D Assisted Living
Discovery 8-20-05 Recovery ongoing.
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kds, u r not cripped with the unknown, just a bit scared but soon you w/b fuming mad. Now we need to get you so that when the mad phase kicks in you will have some balance and not kick the WS to the curb....yet. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> OK? Hugz, L.
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kds,
Isn't it amazing that one of the phrases we learn early on is the hardest to implement, and yet the most true of our lives. "The truth will set you free."
Hang in there.
Last edited by RookKev; 09/16/05 12:26 PM.
9 years now ... and some days you still say grrr!
Hang in there.
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I actually felt relief knowing the truth, the unknown was destroying me.
After exposure, things seem so much better, hard, scarey, but better!
I also want to say thank you for all of you who helped me to stop being a blubbering fool and deal with reality
Praying for a miracle!!!!!!
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kds, thanks for starting this thread.
Hope you won't mind if I also join you in thanking all those that take the time to read, read and reply, offer advice and support when it is most needed.
I find you all very generous and do appreciate your being in my life.
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kds-
I've already said this once, but I also wanted to reiterate--you have shown real courage and composure. If it were me, that woman would be in the hospital, and I'd probably be in jail. Well done!
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You have all helped so much.
I have lived my life crippled. Crippled with the fear of the unknown, and fear to change. made the choice to be a KNIGHT instead of a SERF, as BobPure would say. Good job, kds! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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