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H didnt come in last nite . now he states he needs to with ow. i cant keep dealing with this . hes coming in a while to pick up clothes an i think im ready. i need some rest an to work on myself at this point. thanks to everyone who tried to help us here .
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BEB--I'm sitting here with tears welling up in my eyes for you. You are in my prayers. No one deserves to go through any of this crap! Stay strong!
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beb, this is not the time to give up, this is the time to get to work. Have you exposed the affair? Who is this OW? Is she married? Do they work together?
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Let him go and find out what he is doing. He will regret this so much. Often once they get what they want they find they were wrong. DO not cry tell him your glad he is going.
married 21
Together 26 -
OW 2yrs, he worked with her and found secret e-mail account.The first cut is the deepest.
just found out H is a serial cheater - total cut to pieces now- saw a D lawyer today.
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Do work on yourself. You will be in the best position to save your M once you realize you will be okay no matter what happens. Let that cage door swing open for him, have you read "Love Must Be Tough" or "Surviving and Affair"?
BW 43 me
FWH 39
M 1992; DD 18. 13
OC 8-05 - no contact
In recovery 8 years
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