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H came an got some clothes. Strange as it sounds i could see small glimpes of the man i love not just the ws. I was cruel or vindictive just stated that there would be nc on my part. Suggested that he take some time out for himself away from me an ow an find out what is going on with himself.I tried to let him know that I have been here for him but we can not go on this or at least I cant. I told him I loved the caring man He used to an would love to see that man again. But who knows if he is still in fog IM sure i accomplished nothing, I am better today than i was yesterday, at least today I am not sitting wondering if he is with ow. I know he is. This woman has been married six times an broken countless home in her past,so she can add this one to list. So ok group where do i go from here.
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BEB, this is THE time for you to be in plan A not go dark on him. You need to be the bright light that draws him out of the darkness and back home. Have you read Surviving An Affair? Have you read the concepts fully? Since your H is gone please take the time to really read.
Faith
me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49
DS 30
DD 21
DS 15
OCDS 8
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I would say if he contacts you then talk and be that bright light. I would not reach out to him. He probably feels trapped as it is, don't pursue him.
BW 43 me
FWH 39
M 1992; DD 18. 13
OC 8-05 - no contact
In recovery 8 years
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