I have always had strange dreams when I was pregnant they were truely bizzar.

Spring of 2004 I kept having a recurring dream at the time I was preparing for my H 40th birthday surprise party. Live entertainment, 150 guests, tons of food and drink, even coordinated w/ friends to do a "while you were out" yard make over for the party. For weeks before the party H was acting a little distant and stressed.
I kept having a dream: We were at H's surprise party and H got up with the band and thanked everyone for coming. And made an annoucement that he wanted a divorce and now everyone could party and celebrate! A week after the party he told me he wasn't in love with me and couldn't see us growing old together.

A few nights ago I had another wild dream!
We had pulled up to our house...but it was our old house the one that caught on fire. We were in the minivan with the kids and WH was talking babble. I decided that was it and I wasn't going to let him in the house. So the kids and I duct taped him into his seat and gagged him so he would stop babbling.
The kids and I went into the house and H was there! I thought "oh man he is going to be sooo mad." I asked him how he got out of the van, he said he hadn't been in the van all day. He had no idea what I was talking about. We went out the van and WH was still there all taped and gagged. H didn't know what to say but couldn't believe that I could do that to someone. He took the gag out of WH mouth and the babble began. He stuffed the gag back in and said "That guy is horrible! He's an imposter!" So we took WH, seat and all out of the van and put him under the elevated wrap-around porch. We just left him there. We would check on him occassionally to see if he was still breathing, we were waiting for him to die trying to figure out an explaination. (It was kind of like the movie Weekend at Bernie's) Then one day we went to check on him and WH was just gone, gag laying on the seat duct tape still in place. H said "Thank God thats over lets go celebrate!"

If only it were that easy!!LOL <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Anybody else having weird dreams?

Oh yeah almost every night .. I have dreamed of always being back with my H and everything is wonderful.. wishful thinking I think ....

worst one I had though I was going to Ihop of all places and there was WH with OW... They were sitting his truck and she just looked at me and gave me a smile, like see I have him.... What woke me up was the fact I tried climbing through the window to get her and WH was holding me back...
I woke up pretty fast after that .....

I had a dream a couple of nights ago that WH came to our house and ask me to go with him on his trip overseas. I should note that these trips happen every couple of years and until the one last year (when the A started) I had been with him for a least part of each trip.

From what I remember of my dream, I told him that I didn't think I could go with him. I have a job now and need to be here, so sorry.

What a message from my subconscious!

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Orchid I thought you might get a kick out of this. You are so good at providing imagry (sp?),never mind...mental picture.

Is there a spell check here somewhere?

Oh, I like the dream where the WS was tied up with duct tape. LOL!!!!

Hm.... it is evident to you conscience and sub-conscience that you don't want the WS around.

I had a dream where George Clooney took me out on a date. Nothing fancy, he made dinner at his house over lookig the Monterey Bay and then we went roller blading in Santa Cruz. LOL!!!! I don't skate.

I woke up knowing that I was not t/b a reject for the rest of my life. That to someone who I may not have known, I c/b a good match and visa versa. Armed with my newly found confidence, I rang WS who had just gone to sleep (he worked nights as a limo driver). Got him up from his deep sleep an d proceeded to tell him I was ready for the D. Boy those words woke him up. LOL!!! I didn't take the D work away from him. Rather I let him know he could go get the d, this time I was ready for it. It hurt less. Waaay less.

L.

So after those dreams, how do you feel?

L.

I thought yu'd get a kick out of the duct tape dream.
I woke up from that one feeling good, like I didn't feel like I had to accept the WH. It was nice to see the REAL H. I am seeing less and less of WH behaviors. It seems like we might be turning the corner. But I am still not going to release the duct tape. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />