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Balance
#1475442 09/17/05 09:13 PM
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What do you mean by "balance"? I am curious to know what that means to you. I hear that alot but I am not exactly sure what that "balance" means. Help me out here.


The balance I was referring to is kind of a sweet/sour thing. Often when we post here the answer we are looking for is how to fix WH so M can stay intact. What we sometimes don't want to see is that WH can't be fixed. And keeping the M may not be the "best" thing.

You remind us that when we pray to God for answers sometimes the answer is "No".

I'd say you are realist. Your POV is helpful, because it challenges us to look at things from all different directions. Not that you give cookie cutter answers.

Its a good thing and I also enjoy your sense of humor. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

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D-Day 2/25/05; WH moved out 3/15/05 & back too soon 3/22/05...He left again 5/8/06
5/25/06 Plan B.....NC letter 6/18/06
Recovery finally began Jan 2007
We are IN love again!!!Sept 2007
Re: Balance
ChaCha #1475443 09/17/05 09:17 PM
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Gotcha....thanks for the clarification.

Lem

Some people just don't get it, they don't get it that they don't get it.

I had the right to remain silent.......but I didn't have the ability.

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