Hi everyone,

We have been married for about 10 years with one wonderful son. I have to agree that I did not treat my wife very well in the last a few years. I am an ambitious man who want a great career. Things is ok for me but I always wants more. Thus, in some cases, I put my angry on her and push her a lot. But I never cheat her.

Recently I found someone frequently call my wife when I am away on business trip. There seemed to be a pattern, usually the guy called at 6:00pm and then call 10:00PM and then called her at 7:00AM the next day. When I ask her, she denied it. But if I insist, she became so angry that she threaten to do awful things on me. I am afraid of continuing asking because I think she will be totally out of mind.

I do not know what to do. My heart is broken. I want find out the truth. Should I keep asking or stop? It seems that the call disappeared and my wife wants to go back life. But I just could not bear the thoughts that my wife may be cheating on me and I could not find the truth.

Could any help?

Is it the home phone or a cell? If it the home phone, that can easily be monitored. If it's the cell you need to get the call records.

You may want to back off the questioning to avoid suspicion.

Very common, almost always a WS gets defensive when questioned.

Home phone tapping requires about $45.00 at radio shack.

Voice activated recorder $35
Phone line to recorder adapter $5
extra phone line $2
wall splitter $2

connect the wall splitter to the wall jack.
connect the phone from 1 outlet, connect the extra phone line to the other outlet.
connect the the second phone line to reorder adapter.
connect the adapter to microphone input on recorder.

Set this up on any phone jack that is concealed. Set to record upon voice activation (MAKE SURE TO TURN THE VOLUME OFF).

when the phone rings the recorder will activate. You will also need a cassette tape. 120 Min = 60 Min on each side.

Unless you have a digital recorder, if cassette, wrap the recorder in a towel, box, etc to dampen the clicking sound.