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reactionary pin-ball #1479512 09/21/05 02:51 PM
Joined: Jul 2004 Posts: 11,539 la la land aka land of fruits ... F faithful follower Member
faithful follower Member F Joined: Jul 2004 Posts: 11,539 la la land aka land of fruits ...	Pep, you just gave me the emotional word picture I needed! That would me ~me~. BTW, I learn much better with word pictures so I am hoping this one in my noggin will help me with self control, something I am desperately short on. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> Faith me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49 DS 30 DD 21 DS 15 OCDS 8

Re: reactionary pin-ball faithful follower #1479513 09/21/05 02:54 PM
Joined: Oct 2000 Posts: 35,996 Shrek's Swamp P Pepperband Member
Pepperband Member P Joined: Oct 2000 Posts: 35,996 Shrek's Swamp	I love word pictures ... I am very much a visual learner. How about you? LINK ~~> Carrot/Stick of Plan A LINK ~~> Buyers/Renters/Freeloaders

Re: reactionary pin-ball Pepperband #1479514 09/21/05 02:55 PM
Joined: Jul 2004 Posts: 11,539 la la land aka land of fruits ... F faithful follower Member
faithful follower Member F Joined: Jul 2004 Posts: 11,539 la la land aka land of fruits ...	Quote I am very much a visual learner. How about you? I am both a learn by doing and visual learning. I do not ~hear~ things correctly. My emotional processing seems to get in the way. Visual gives me concrete evidence to back up what I am hearing. Faith me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49 DS 30 DD 21 DS 15 OCDS 8

Re: reactionary pin-ball faithful follower #1479515 09/21/05 02:56 PM
Joined: Jul 2004 Posts: 11,539 la la land aka land of fruits ... F faithful follower Member
faithful follower Member F Joined: Jul 2004 Posts: 11,539 la la land aka land of fruits ...	I need to empty my pockets of the quarters for my pinball machine! Faith me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49 DS 30 DD 21 DS 15 OCDS 8

Re: reactionary pin-ball faithful follower #1479516 09/21/05 02:56 PM
Joined: Oct 2000 Posts: 35,996 Shrek's Swamp P Pepperband Member
Pepperband Member P Joined: Oct 2000 Posts: 35,996 Shrek's Swamp	bwhaaaaaaaaaaaa LINK ~~> Carrot/Stick of Plan A LINK ~~> Buyers/Renters/Freeloaders

Re: reactionary pin-ball Pepperband #1479517 09/21/05 03:54 PM
Joined: Jun 2005 Posts: 36 G Giovanna1111 Member
Giovanna1111 Member G Joined: Jun 2005 Posts: 36	YES thank you too, Pep-- I am SOOOOO guilty of this -- and I always wind up in the GUTTER crying and more hurt and stressed out AFTER all the pinball.. LOL.... There was another GREAT phrase I heard somewhere and I cannot remember EXACTLY how it went-- it totally opened my eyes to another bad habit - when someone says "oh boy I feel so hurt because bla bla" then the other person says "OH WELL I FEEL 100 TIMES WORSE BECAUSE..." Thus wiping out the other's concerns because yours are "more severe" or what have you. Darnit I hate my memory! NO LONGER "BW"! I am "RD" - RESURRECTED DIVA ! 33 years young-LIVING LIFE AGAIN WITH OR WITHOUT MY HUSBAND DARNIT! Married 5 years-3 children 15, 12 & 10 Dday- July 03 / OC- born January 04 Reconciling? We WERE but I woke up one day and didn't love him anymore...

Re: reactionary pin-ball Giovanna1111 #1479518 09/21/05 04:43 PM
Joined: Oct 2000 Posts: 35,996 Shrek's Swamp P Pepperband Member
Pepperband Member P Joined: Oct 2000 Posts: 35,996 Shrek's Swamp	Quote Thus wiping out the other's concerns because yours are "more severe" or what have you. victim one-upmanship LINK ~~> Carrot/Stick of Plan A LINK ~~> Buyers/Renters/Freeloaders

Re: reactionary pin-ball Pepperband #1479519 09/21/05 04:49 PM
Joined: Jan 2004 Posts: 646 L Loy Member
Loy Member L Joined: Jan 2004 Posts: 646	Quote victim one-upmanship Quote cussology I love science. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

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