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#14799 09/27/99 06:35 PM
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Found out a month ago W is having an affair with a 19 yo private going through training. I told W and OM that if they didn't stop seeing each other i would go to his drill sergeants and let the military laws handle it. She has lied about seeing the OM-i caught them getting out of a car together when she said she was working. I want to tell his drill sergeant now, but am afraid that she will want a D NOW. We plan on separating in JAN, after we are both more financially set. Should i try to punish OM, or keep letting them take advantage of me?
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This is a hard one. Didn't you talk to OM? And didn't you warn him that you were going to report him if he didn't stay away from your wife, and he agreed?<P>How are the lovebusters at home?
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rik999 - This is NOT a hard one! Tell the supervisor, ALWAYS tell! (But maybe do it anonymously.) I saw my W getting out of OM's car too, but was too far away to do anything. Frankly, if I'd been close enough, I would have hopped in and beat the crap out of the guy. I mean it! (As it was, I just got my W into bed and screwed her brains out! Hey, you've got to be a little flexible about these things!) Yeah, punish, definitely punish. But do it cleverly, and with style, using your imagination! Regards and blessings,<P>--Wex

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