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Exposure to OW parents ?
#1480810 09/22/05 03:18 PM
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Since the OW is divorced her X probably doesn’t care….My thoughts
Are to let her parents know. I am a very good sleuth and have the
Address and phone number to her parents…..who live out of state….
What do you think ? Exposure hasn’t happened yet, but if it does I
Want people on her side to know what she has done…..am I evil ??

Chat
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chatabout #1480811 09/22/05 03:35 PM
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As soon as you know for certain that your S is having an affair, you should do your homework. find out all you can about the A and the OP without the WS's knowledge. Then expose in one big swoop: your parents, WS's parents, OP's significant other, OP's parents, authorities at OP's and WS's workplace (they do usually work together), close friends, your children as appropriate, and anyone who may have a vested interest in breaking up the affair. Do it as soon as possible and as soon as you feel able to follow exposure with a stellar Plan A in the face of WS anger and spite at having their secret vice taken away.

Me BS 44
XH 45
M 20 years
D19
D12
DDay 11.29.04
Separated 12.29.04
Plan A 24.02.05
Plan B 10.9.05
Plan D 2.2.06
Divorce 13.6.06
OW - former friend and D12's x-godmother (Skunkypoo)
OWH - philander, XH's former best friend (still shares skunkypoo with XH)


Anger = drinking a rat poison and waiting/wishing the rat would notice you drink it and the rat die from it.
Redhat
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losttranslation #1480812 09/22/05 03:41 PM
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If you are still trying to end the A, then exposure to any and all persons associated with your WS and the OP is just what you should do.
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patriot92 #1480813 09/22/05 03:55 PM
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The affair is very damaging for all people involved, including the other person. Telling her parents may make it more difficult for her to engage in this behavior.

If your not sure how to tell them, write it our here first.

Loy

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