Okay update on this guy...we had a MAJOR talk the other night online and we both shared lots of EN's including the kiss/hug goodbye and he apologized and said.."let's work on that"...so this morning when he left here...he kissed me good-bye with no hesitation at all. Was really nice. I guess the moral to this is...it's okay to share EN's after all. Who knew....okay well you guys did..i didn't...lol

thanks bunches!!

Alluring

Alluring,

That is good news! And I'm glad that he was open and receptive to your needs.

K!

VERY!!! really surprised myself!! I just waited for the right timing.

Thanks!!!

See, we men are trainable! LOL

LOL!!! I want that in writing!!!!

Yes, it is much easier than when we're expected to read their minds... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smirk.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

And that's exactly what I expected him to do...awful aren't I? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" />

Learned a BIG lesson with that one!!!

LOL, AGG. The other day, I was finishing up a meeting with my boss, when he phone rang. Transcript:

Him: Oh, hello, sweetheart. No, just finishing up a meeting with "Check." Yeah, I have time for lunch; that would be nice. It'll need to be someplace close to the office, since I have a 1:30. What are you interested in for lunch.

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Well, there's pretty much anything you may want in the area; Chinese, Italian, Thai, Japanese, Mexican, Jewish deli, you name it.

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No, there aren't any of those in this part of town.

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Dear, whatever you want is fine with me. I can eat anything. Why don't you ...

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As I said, I can eat anything. Any of those are fine; just choose one.

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Okay, then I'll choose one. How about The Oak Room; you love their salads. Just come by the office and we'll leave from here.

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That's why I asked you to choose the restaurant! I told you I don't care, sweetheart, but you seem to have an idea about what you want. I can't read your mind, you know. So just tell me. There's no need for you to be mad.

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Bancock Garden it is. That's only just down the street.

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Yes, I know you said the other day that it had been awhile since we had Thai, but I didn't know if you wanted it today or not, so I asked.

Yes, dear.

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Yes, dear.

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(sigh)

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OK. See you in a few minutes.

Him to me: are all women crazy?

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Imagine the bonus points he would have gotten if he had guessed the right restaurant to begin with!

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Umm, nah, only the good ones!

Sometimes, there's just too many choices. It all sounds good, and then we have to pick!! Or, we have a taste for something, and we can't figure out what it is.

But, I do want to add, Great job on his part for meeting her for lunch. I think thats important in a relationship. Especially given the fact he had a mtg. and he still wanted to have lunch with her.

K!

Had he guessed The Bancock Garden to begin with she would have wanted The Oak Room. We women are horrible!!! LOL

And as a side note...I live in a very small town...I think people here would s**t if we had so many choices of where to have lunch...Thai?? Japanese?? Jewish deli?? we don't have those things here...LOL OY! I need to get out of town more!!! LMAO!!!!