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I found that someone called my wife very frequently. When I asked her, she said there is nothing. I recently found that my wife called him too. And she try to make the call in ways that I could not find out. And she start to call him more and more often. I do not know if I should ask her about this. Every time we talk about this, she just blow up and we end up even far apart. And she has supposed that I did not know all the calls she made.
What should be my plan?
Thanks,
adsf
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Go to Radio Shack or Wallmart and purchase a voice activated DIGITAL voice recorder. Hide it in the house on a shelf or in her car to eavesdrop on the conversations with OM or conversations with friends that know what is going on. This may sound extreme but there is no right to privacy in a marriage. You need to know exactly what you are up against. Assuming it is inappropriate come back here and let us assist you with developing a plan of action. Just get the information and do not confront her until you have discussed it here.
Do not look to your wife for honesty. She will not give it to you until confronted with overwhelming evidence.
Also, post over on the Infidelity-General Questions II board. Far more activity over there.
ACTdontreact
Last edited by ACTdontreact; 09/28/05 01:45 PM.
Me-BH 42
WW - 37
EA/PA Jan-June 2005
Dday April 15, 2005
NC-June 5, 2005
Recovery -so far so good
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I forgot to mention --- get a lot of batteries.
AND
I said DIGITAL recorder, not the cassette type. Cassette recorders are not as sensitive, sound horrible and make clicking sounds. The cassette type do not work in the car at all.
Last edited by ACTdontreact; 09/28/05 01:53 PM.
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