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Naughty things- husband going out of town #1486136 09/28/05 05:51 PM
Joined: Jun 2005 Posts: 15 S Shyanti Junior Member
Shyanti Junior Member S Joined: Jun 2005 Posts: 15	My husband is going out of town for 5 days & I would like to put something in his suitcase for him to find to remind him of me!!! We have been through some very rocky times lately, a trust issue with money, some emotional needs issues & we just don't communicate very well. This is the first time he has gone away & would like to do something out of the ordinary. We have been together 25 years & we both feel that things have gotten stale & we are in a rut. Any suggestions???? Thanks

Re: Naughty things- husband going out of town Shyanti #1486137 09/28/05 07:22 PM
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kam6318 Member K Joined: Jan 2000 Posts: 14,283	I sent a thong once...got quite a response <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Re: Naughty things- husband going out of town kam6318 #1486138 09/29/05 10:25 AM
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Aslan_the_Lion Member A Joined: Sep 1999 Posts: 1,194	I would suggest you wear the thong first. If you have a digital camera, perhaps even a pic with the thong on and off. I assure you, he will love it <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />. May the Lord Bless You and Keep You, John Rahrrrrrr!!

Re: Naughty things- husband going out of town Shyanti #1486139 09/30/05 01:41 PM
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WelcomeToMars Junior Member W Joined: Sep 2005 Posts: 4	A lengthy, handwritten note telling him exactly how you would like to make use of the thong. Follow up with the phone call. Then for the rest of the trip he will have a "thmile on his face and a thong in his heart" <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> He will consider himself lucky that you made that effort. Why can't we just get along?

Re: Naughty things- husband going out of town WelcomeToMars #1486140 09/30/05 06:47 PM
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Shyanti Junior Member S Joined: Jun 2005 Posts: 15	well I bought a thong & wrote a note... I feel very self conscious about the thong though if he asks me to wear it... but I will overcome my fear & wear it if he asks!!!

Re: Naughty things- husband going out of town Shyanti #1486141 09/30/05 06:57 PM
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cinnymd Member C Joined: Aug 2005 Posts: 365	You know, I used to hate wearing thongs too. It just felt really weird and uncomfortable. But I bought one or two because I knew my H liked it ... and now that is just about all I wear. You get used to it. Me, the WS, 25 My H, the BS, 25 Married Sept 2003 Served with D papers Aug 2005, but still hoping to make it work History, despite its wrenching pain, cannot be unlived, but if faced with courage, need not be lived again. --Maya Angelou Proud of the woman that I have become, not the events that made me become that woman.

Re: Naughty things- husband going out of town cinnymd #1486142 09/30/05 07:50 PM
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WelcomeToMars Junior Member W Joined: Sep 2005 Posts: 4	It's not at all about the article itself - it's about the effort. It really IS the thought that counts. I think it's a "willingness" versus "desire" issue. By doing something like this, you are showing desire. Why can't we just get along?

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