My wifes affair ended very badly, they hate eachother. He used her and she found out. She only saw the man 1 time before she seperated from me. She has filed for divorce, and is or going thru a mid life crisis now. We talk all the time. We do go out with eachother sometimes. She as ask me for sometime. I get the I love you but no in love with you <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />