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Thinking about the Affair #1486771 09/29/05 05:06 PM
Joined: Jul 2005 Posts: 928 S Shaden OP Member
OP Shaden Member S Joined: Jul 2005 Posts: 928	I went into my washroom this morning and noticed two individually wrapped rolls of toilet paper sitting on the counter. I noticed in large letters across these rolls that the brand name of the toilet paper was the same as the first name of the OM. At first I thought, great, even the toilet paper is going to cause triggers and will bring the OM front and centre to my W's mind. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> Then, I couldn't help but laugh at the thought of wiping my backside with the appropriately named toilet paper. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" /> I have to get a new brand. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" /> Shaden BH (Me) - 38 WW - 36 Married - 16 years 2 children - 10,12 DD1 - 05/30/05 - EA suspected, W wanted space DD2 - 07/01/05 - EA/PA discovered & confronted WW DD3 - 07/21/05 - Further contact discovered and now ended. 11/07/05 - exposed to OMW... 07/01/07 - separated to give "space". recovery was not progressing. 09/04/07 - DDAY all over... new OM. Patience with God is Faith. Patience with myself is Hope. Patience with others is Love. FAITH REQUIRES ACTION!

Re: Thinking about the Affair Shaden #1486772 09/29/05 05:15 PM
Joined: Apr 2001 Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1 Texas M MelodyLane Member
MelodyLane Member M Joined: Apr 2001 Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1 Texas	lol, his name is CHARMIN??? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" /> "It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101

Re: Thinking about the Affair MelodyLane #1486773 09/29/05 05:17 PM
Joined: Jul 2005 Posts: 928 S Shaden OP Member
OP Shaden Member S Joined: Jul 2005 Posts: 928	No... but I bet he thinks he's charmin'. BH (Me) - 38 WW - 36 Married - 16 years 2 children - 10,12 DD1 - 05/30/05 - EA suspected, W wanted space DD2 - 07/01/05 - EA/PA discovered & confronted WW DD3 - 07/21/05 - Further contact discovered and now ended. 11/07/05 - exposed to OMW... 07/01/07 - separated to give "space". recovery was not progressing. 09/04/07 - DDAY all over... new OM. Patience with God is Faith. Patience with myself is Hope. Patience with others is Love. FAITH REQUIRES ACTION!

Re: Thinking about the Affair Shaden #1486774 09/29/05 05:20 PM
Joined: Aug 2005 Posts: 981 K kdsheartbreak Member
kdsheartbreak Member K Joined: Aug 2005 Posts: 981	Bwahahahahahahahahahahah!!!!!!!!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> In the end, I have nothing to lose but everything to gain, by trying to save my marriage. Me, betrayed wife 46 Former Wandering Husband, 51 E/A 2005 28 years of marriage DD 26, DS 24 O/W aka, Rat 29, A-D Assisted Living Discovery 8-20-05 Recovery ongoing.

Re: Thinking about the Affair kdsheartbreak #1486775 09/29/05 05:34 PM
Joined: Nov 2004 Posts: 1,719 R realtor* Member
realtor* Member R Joined: Nov 2004 Posts: 1,719	Oh I needed that. laughing is sooooo good for us. married 21 Together 26 - OW 2yrs, he worked with her and found secret e-mail account.The first cut is the deepest. just found out H is a serial cheater - total cut to pieces now- saw a D lawyer today.

Re: Thinking about the Affair kdsheartbreak #1486776 09/29/05 05:36 PM
Joined: Sep 2005 Posts: 57 S spinmaker Member
spinmaker Member S Joined: Sep 2005 Posts: 57	You know there may be a huge market fot this - considering a divorce rate of 50%. Just think made to order toilet paper w/ photo or name!

Re: Thinking about the Affair spinmaker #1486777 09/29/05 05:58 PM
Joined: Jul 2005 Posts: 6,316 Michigan M MrsWondering Member
MrsWondering Member M Joined: Jul 2005 Posts: 6,316 Michigan	Quote Just think made to order toilet paper w/ photo or name! Yeah, we could call it, BUTT RIBBON for the BETRAYED!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smirk.gif" alt="" />

Re: Thinking about the Affair MrsWondering #1486778 09/29/05 09:50 PM
Joined: Jun 2005 Posts: 2,200 K kimberly234 Member
kimberly234 Member K Joined: Jun 2005 Posts: 2,200	This is GREAT! I got a huge chuckle. I do believe there is a market for that!! Kimberly D-Day May 14th, 2005 Married 16 Years DS age 8 6 months Plan A Plan B 10-11-05, H moved back in June 2007, Very False Recovery. 2nd Day-Day 7/7/08 Kicked WH Out. Plan B for my sanity "Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things." Robert Brault

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