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Hi Peb.
I think mothers who raise and then encourage unfaithful whiny mamas boys should be studied, like baboons.
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Hey Pebs, missed ya! Glad you are doing well.. You sound so so strong. I hope to be at the stage you are in now... I'm still dealing with anger, but I believe I'll progress thru my healing stages and get to have more peace in the future.
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Dear Pebbles,
You are an example to us b/s that life can go on after the affair. May god bring good things into your life and bless your little family.
Best wishes in your new life,
Sincerely,
K.D.'s Broken Heart
In the end, I have nothing to lose but everything to gain, by trying to save my marriage.
Me, betrayed wife 46
Former Wandering Husband, 51 E/A 2005
28 years of marriage
DD 26, DS 24
O/W aka, Rat 29, A-D Assisted Living
Discovery 8-20-05 Recovery ongoing.
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Pebs... A movie for you to rent oldie but goodie An Unmarried Womanreport back <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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21-gun salute to Pebbles!!!!!!!!!!!! You are amazing and awesome!!!!!!!!! You are on top of the mountain and out of the fog forever.
PS I loved Gimble's idea of giving your WH away. Discarding him on a silver platter. Like giving her a sack of last week's garbage. "Here you go - I'm all through with this." Delightful!
A smooth sea never made a skilled mariner.
~ English proverb Neak's Story
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I would never send this, it's not my style, but it was fun thinking of it. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Perhaps you will be amused. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smirk.gif" alt="" /> Dear John's Wife, Thank you so much for taking WH off my hands. I wish you both the happiness and faithful love you so richly deserve [<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />]. Kindly relay to WH my refusal of his generous [gag] booty call offer. You may wish to avail yourself of the educational books and video tapes available in the local library to better meet this need. I'm afraid I will not have time to attend to WH's small details [<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />] as I will be occupied with larger and more pressing matters [nudge, nudge <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />]. My most sincere thanks, Pebbles <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> (Yes, I have too much time on my hands today, LOL). *************************** Gimble, are you still up for a trip to the local cheater bar to kick some adulterer behind with me - just because we want to? I've never hit anyone in my life, but my alter ego, "Faithful Woman, Defender of BSs Everywhere," has been working on perfecting her roundhouse kick. Oh, I call the small, scrawny ones! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
Me 40, STBXWH 43
Married 16 years
D-day 01/25/05
Son 14, Daughter 10
Divorce almost final - I hope!
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Oh, I was too embarrassed to say it before, but he did subtly suggest the occasional booty call, a "friends with benefits" kind of deal. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> Uh, I don't think I'll ever be THAT desperate, LOL. Pebs is NOBODY's booty call. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> If he suggests this again, tell him... "SORRY, I DON'T [color:"red"]DO[/color] [color:"blue"]SMALL FAVORS[/color]!!! AND BESIDES, I DON'T HAVE TIME FOR A [color:"green"]SEARCH PARTY[/color]!!!"Good For You, Pebbles! Best of Luck! Mrs. Wondering
FWW ~ 47 ~ MeFBH ~ 50 ~ MrWonderingDD ~ 17 Dday ~ 2005 ~ Recovered
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bwahahahaahahahahaaaa! Y'all are such BAD GIRLS! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Hi, Pebbles. Quote: ============================== Gimble, are you still up for a trip to the local cheater bar to kick some adulterer behind with me - just because we want to? I've never hit anyone in my life, but my alter ego, "Faithful Woman, Defender of BSs Everywhere," has been working on perfecting her roundhouse kick. Oh, I call the small, scrawy ones! ============================== I am always up for a bit of infidel butt kicking. Aside from being side splitting fun (or should that be head splitting), it's ultimately good for the infidel <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Point me toward the big ones. They fall harder. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Seriously, I think you should nice up the letter, just marginally, and send it. Consider it extending your style a bit, kind of like trying on a different kind of shoe than what you normally wear. Gimble
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
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How about this? Dear John's Wife, I just wanted to let you know that I have moved on with my life; I am done with Bam-Bam, and now he belongs only to you. I wish you both everything you so richly deserve. Please let Bam-bam know that I have decided to decline his offer from the other day. He will know which one you are talking about. Thank you more than you know, Pebbles Of course, I like Pebbles' first version better! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />
A smooth sea never made a skilled mariner.
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Change "Please let Bam-bam know that I have decided to decline his offer from the other day. He will know which one you are talking about." to "Please let Bam-bam know that I have decided to decline his offer for occasional unscheduled sex." Can you say "fire", otherwise known as "Fiwa" by Elmer Fudd. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Gimble
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
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Hi Pebbles,
I heard a song on the radio this morning and it reminded me of you. I think that it is so odd...that you would even come to my mind...we've never met. Anyway it was a disco song that I always danced to "back in the day" and sang along but never listened to the words. This morning I listened to the words and thought of you. Gloria Gaynor "I Will Survive"
aka-confused42
BS-45 me
WH-42
DS-14 & DD-12
together 21 yrs, married 18.5yrs
"I love you but not IN love with you" speech 6/3/04
D-Day 2/25/05; WH moved out 3/15/05 & back too soon 3/22/05...He left again 5/8/06
5/25/06 Plan B.....NC letter 6/18/06
Recovery finally began Jan 2007
We are IN love again!!!Sept 2007
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