WW of seven months is moving out this week end. My goal is to get her out with out our kids and make her feel okay about it. Should I spring a plan B letter on her when she gets to our house tonight. She has delusions of taking our kids to OM's apartment plus dogs other stuff. I want her out with only personal items. I think I may have to give some stuff in order to keep kids. At this point I don't think she will be very accepting to a strong in your face plan B. At this point I have been working the plan A to the hilt and she is really feeling bad about her actions. Now even admitting how guilt and remorse for neglecting me and our kids, the dogs, the house while being in a wrongful relationship. I'm not sure if she will be remorseful enough to negociate after she see's OM after work. She was emailing me like crazy until lunch with OM. Now all is silent.

last email from WW
oh BS-
how can u not know my love for u will
never die. it has only faded. there is a song i heard today that i know that explains things so perfectly, but me out of touch w/ everything- don't even know what it is.
i feel like i have ruined everyones lives. i have not been a good person lately. i have neglected the house, laundry- kids, dog-just everything & everyone. I feel really awful.
i felt ok about it in the beginning I guess because I felt like oh what the ******, look at how lonely i have been & how your mind was never on me or the house one laundry or kids, so my attitude was just screw it. I am so sad everyday. I don't know how to get back to happy or if i can. i guess i feel like u deserve better than me-u know- for the longest time i have walked thru life wondering if this was it-was there nothing more- i don't know what the future holds for me or u or DD-im scared to know.
i hate to know really what kind of damage i have done to her. i always wanted to be a good mommy.
I have failed.i guess i am jealous of u now-sounds stupid huh- well, now i guess u will have the opportunity to be the great daddy i knew u could be.
yes-we can talk later.
sorry for not being able to wake u out of your fog sooner.
so so sorry.
i don't know who this god guy is, but i hope he keeps u & my sweet baby girl safe.

Please call a lawyer ASAP if you have not. Do not let her take your kids with her!!!

Your reply on the bottom of her printed out email.

All of us are sad to see you go but you will be going alone with your things.

As per your email above, you appear to be going through a very bad time. For the sake of the children and dogs, they will be staying with me in our home.

I hope you find what and who you are looking for. Until that occurs, you will agree that exposure to your depression and the OM make it imperative that I am the protector of our children.

Best of luck


She MIGHT get that message, but don't count on it

she sent this to you? I think she is regretting her actions. A good plan B letter gives her the option of coming back if she meets your boundries. NC ect. So I would give her a plan B. B is to protect your love for her and protect you and the children. So yes I think it is time If she ends up moving out.

I would wait on the plan B letter for now, but I would make it clear that your children are staying with you.