I have been wondering what is up with my exWH for over a week. He had bulled away from me and was starting to show signs of his former self. Not to a major degree but in small ways. The old meters starting sending me signals again and my nightmares have come back. So yesterday I ask WH if he can get on the internet at the ontrol offices. He had denied being able to for a long time. He said yes I can but they do watch us. This is how he was able to email OW from work. Not to often to send red flags out. He was honest and I apprectiate that for a change. Then he said something about OW that made me wonder. He said everyone thought she was having an A with aother guy. I said a LB ? I said maybe she was doing both of you. He said honey we never did anything. I said yeah ok. Then he said she is moving out of state thye have their house on the market. I asked how do you know this. He said a guy that used to work with her told me. I found this odd. She is going to Alabama. I asked I thought she was very close with her family here and would never move. He just shrugged his shoulders. I think they spoke or maybe had lunch together. I did not ask- He had said it is all in the past and we need to move on. Conflict avoider?? What do you wise people here think. I am burnt out over all this.I plan on going into my realestate sites to see if her house is listed. I wonder.

Why would OW's personal plans come up in a conversation between two men at work? ....

This seems unlikely to me as well ... unless the co-worker in question is a gay man .... women tend to yak about this personal sort of stuff at work, not men. Men tend to talk about sports, hobbies, news, etc. Not someone's personal life.

Odd, yes it is .... just keep your spidey senses alert. Do not reveal your concern to your H ... he will only become harder to read if you do.

Ok - I did good - I just nodded. However really thought it odd. The nightmares coming back really made me realize something doesn't fit.