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and he is so weird!! He said he is glad I did this and we should all get over it.

I don't understand--is that a normal reaction>

How can he claim to love this woman if he is still sleeping in our bed and at times when we have a few drinks we get kind of wild. I don't think this is love but when I hear her voice mail calling him "baby" it turns my stomach.

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how did his family react?

he is living in some kind of alternate reality where he thinks he gets to have both. Plan B is going to rock his world. Please don't be afraid of Plan B! Its going to be your most powerful weapon.

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his family is very supportive of me and back me up 100%.

they are not putting him down and neither did i when i told them.

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It is wonderful and helpful to have his family's support. If they support your family surviving, that is very good.


BW 43 me
FWH 39
M 1992; DD 18. 13
OC 8-05 - no contact
In recovery 8 years

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