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I just can't imagine TELLING or HINTING to someone that they suck at kissing...LOL If you were doing something or not doing something that your SO prefers, wouldn't you like to know? I know I would. But, saying that, I have known women (my XW included) who told me that if they were doing something I didn't like or not doing something that I would like (intimately speaking), not to say anything, because they didn't want to know. Their theory was that they should automatically know what it is that I want and to tell them differently is to criticize them for what they were doing. By the way....why do you still have that email address on there if it doesn't work?? LOL Either I'm lazy or I think I'm going to activate it again soon... one or the other...
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If you want to feel like a teenager again, check out this kissing website. Of course, if you're dating a bad kisser... send him/her there too... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
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If you were doing something or not doing something that your SO prefers, wouldn't you like to know? I know I would. YEAH!!! But my point was...I can't imagine MYSELF telling or hinting...LOL Either I'm lazy or I think I'm going to activate it again soon... one or the other... uh oh......Either way...would you please email me? Of course, if you're dating a bad kisser... send him/her there too... LOL...The current one isn't a bad kisser but he could use some telling or hinting...LOL Oy Vey...here we go again with the coming out and asking for what I need...One day I will get used to it...LOL I bookmarked the site by the way...HAHAHAHA
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TBG.......hmmmm thinking of activating it again soon... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/shocked.gif" alt="" /> was it the kissing or her choice in music? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" />
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was it the kissing or her choice in music? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" /> HA!! Y'all read too much into my questions.... The kissing girl is from several years ago. M is not a bad kisser, but she does have a germ phobia which sometimes gets in the way. The music question is from my XGF. Activating soon - I don't know... I'm not unhappy with my current situation... but... I keep it in the back of my mind that I'm going to go multiple again...
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HA!! Y'all read too much into my questions.... We shouldn't assume your questions are about your current situation... but... you love to play games with us! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" />
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OMG- this is so true. The first time I kissed my hubby- I walked into his house for our first big official date. He had dinner cooked and candlelight. Before that we'd just been friends and had lunch and Starbucks. As I walked into the house he said he said to himself she looks so good I have to kiss her. I was thinking the same thing to myself. Then I thought, "If he puts his hand on the side of my face and caresses it when he kisses me I'm a goner". Sure enough that is what he did! The rest... is history....
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Activating soon - I don't know... I'm not unhappy with my current situation... but... I keep it in the back of my mind that I'm going to go multiple again... And too, that's what my horoscope says to do. (funny thing is, today is the first time in years I've read my horoscope) <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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We shouldn't assume your questions are about your current situation... but... you love to play games with us! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" /> I've never played games with y'all... except maybe Check, and that's only because he's a goof.
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okay here's mine for today then...based on the same one you used...LOL Virgo Daily Singles Horoscope for October 4, 2005 You're less interested in finding perfection and more involved in finding meaning. It's a fine state for your heart and mind. Find a friend to discuss the deep stuff with, and make some big philosophical progress. The one I use for this is HERE
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Allurin... we're both Virgo's! Thanks for posting that for me. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />
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If the lady isn't a good kisser, do you break off the relationship? Hmmm, I think kissing is very important to a healthy relationship, but I doubt that I'd end an otherwise-perfect relationship if that were the only problem. However, having said that, I once had a longterm GF who had a cold mouth, for lack of a better explanation <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />. I mean literally, it was always cold. And without TMI, there is something weird about kissing someone deeply if their mouth is cold on the inside <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" />. It's not even anything she could fix, obviously, which makes it that much worse. While I did not break up with her because of this, it did strike me as a huge improvement when my next GF had a mouth that was hot as fire, ahem <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />. AGG
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"If the lady isn't a good kisser, do you break off the relationship?"
Heavens no! Kissing is kissing and nothing more. In the final analysis, it signifies nothing. This, again is a custom that arose in the Middle Ages and got incorporated into the Western idea of romantic love. Most cultures around the world do not kiss. Yet they have healthy, happy, fulfilling lives.
We may find kissing comforting, pleasurable and sexually exciting, but we shouldn't base the success or failure of a relationship on it. AND, this is most important, being a good kisser is in no way correlated to being a good lover, just as being a good lover is in no way correlated to being a good husband or wife.
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Allurin... we're both Virgo's! Thanks for posting that for me. Must be why we get along so well..LOL I once had a longterm GF who had a cold mouth, for lack of a better explanation . I mean literally, it was always cold. And without TMI, there is something weird about kissing someone deeply if their mouth is cold on the inside Sorry please let me get this out of my system...ROTFLMAO!!!! ahem Okay all better...but I do have two questions.... How in the world is someone's mouth cold without any help from an (lack of better words)outside source? Was she dead?? LOL...I'm sorry for laughing but this really cracked me up!!
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How in the world is someone's mouth cold without any help from an (lack of better words)outside source? Was she dead?? Beats me <shrug> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />. I guess it's just one of those weird physiological things; for whatever reason, her mouth was cold. It didn't make me think that she was a bad person or anything, but it was a turnoff, what can I say <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />. I guess I like my women warm... AGG
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She was probably a mouth breather, which cools the mouth. People with such conditions and a deviated septum, nasal polyps, or allergies, tend to supplement nasal breathing with mouyh breathing and this is often unnoticable.
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guess I like my women warm... Warm is good...hot is better <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" />
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Dr. Check is in the house...LOL Thanks for the explanation
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Warm is good...hot is better <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> Well, yeah, that's what I was wanting to say, but I didn't want to get banned from the board <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />...
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