Well this is my first post here. Got my papers in the mail 2 weeks ago next day sent my response from my att. I feel like a wart he can't wait to have removed. Been with him 8 years and most of them happy until about 4 and a half months ago when I discovered his affair after he had been lying to me for months.

I hate this I don't want a D never did I want to work on my marriage but he is living with OW and refuses to try. Doesn't care what this is doing to my kids. Doesn't care that I feel as if this is what he wanted and then changed his mind. When I met him I was never getting married again and it took almost 4 years to get me there. Then he does this crap. I feel like a loser how could I have been so wrong about the man I have loved so long? Was he just really good at being a louse and I didn't know it. I feel like the last 8 years was a waste of time. I feel like my life with him was a big fat lie.

How does he go from being a wonderful husband and father. To the lying decietful Bag of human waste he is. This was my last shot at marriage. I don't think I can ever trust a man that much again. He swore to me that this would never happen no matter what and he did it anyway. Dosen't care what happens to me or the kids as long as he has that piece of trash he is living with. I am ashamed of having married him. I never should have let him in. Or even offered to reconcile after I found out. He is like a crack addict and doesn't care who's life he ruins.

I could go on for days about this but nothing matters now he filed and I no longer have a reason to try and save my marriage. He is lost in the fog and just flushed his wife and kids. At times I really hate him for what he is doing and the fact he is such a coward as to not stand up and be the man he once was. At one time he was someone you could count on to di what was right by me and the kids. now he is just a selfish waste of space. Doesn't care about anyone but him self and her.