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Today i take one day free just for my ww, and hope to accompany her , because before her affair, i almost neglected her.
but till after she told me she would go to shopping by herself. and i knew it is a lie. A huge lie in front of me, although she showed me very polite, so i ask if i need accompany her, she told me she would like to go by herself.
i am so sad, i thought she would like to be with me for all day because i just take one day off for her, but i saw she leaving and i m sure she is visit this guy.
i just want to cry, why she treat me like this ?i love her so much !
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pinetree, who is this guy? Can you find out who is parents are? How did she meet him? Did you take my advice and expose the affair to her family?
What country are you from?
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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hi, thanks .
i just know where he works, and he worked in another city, but sometimes live in my city. but i do not know where he lives.
I do not think i can 24/7 monitor my ww.
Suppose today i force my ww to stay at home, but she still can meet this op during the way to home from work. just lying to me there is traffic to come home late.
i have plan a for about one month, i really do not know how long i can hold on this, should i plan b now?
but if i plan b, i do not think my ww is willing to move out, because she can not pay the extra rent .
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i explose her family, but because my ww have little contact her family , so it did not show any influence, however when i explose the affair to our neighour , which affect her a litte bit, i plan to explose further to her workplace, but i do not know if it works.
anyway i just do not want to live under this condition, to see my ww whom i love so much to lie and cheat on me to see this op although she is nice and kind to me.
could i give up, or i still have hope. i just want to move on to plan b right away. i really need peace.
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pinetree, is this a workplace affair? Are you sure the OM is not married? Can you find out who his parents are?
What country are you from?
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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i m from germany. this op have GF, but the problem i can not find any info about this op other than his workplace.
this op works in another city.
I thought if i explose the affair to my ww workplace, which will at least make her feel uncomfortable .
my ww showed her anger when i explose her affair to our neighours.
but now she still is addited to this guy, and she also would like to keep me at her side although she has no feeling for me.
i just do not understand.
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Did you call his girlfriend?
Do your W and the OM work for the same company?
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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no, i can not find who is his GF.
but i am quite sure for the moment, they can not live together if i plan b.
and the op works on different job at another city.
After about one month plan a, it seems not work at all, although i know she have seen what i changed, but she simplily do not want to give up this op, because i know my ww's character very well, i do not think the prlonged plan a will touch her hearts .
so from today i told her if she continue to contact this op, i will not treat her as my real wife. and from today i just showed her, i did not cook coffe for her today, and i did not make bed for her today, and i did not say a word today. she noticed it and she was wondering.
and today she is very polite to me, no any hostile attitude.
i feel very strange. could you anyone tell me is that normal for her?
Last edited by pinetree; 10/12/05 03:47 AM.
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Hi Pinetree,
Ich verstehe immer noch nichts. Sind sie ein mann oder eine frau?? Wer ist fremd gegangen?? Mann kommt durcheinander wenn mann alles leist was sie geschreiben haben. Falls sie werklich hilfe brauchen, sie sollen versuchen uns mehr details zugeben.
"Success is the ability to go from failure to failure without losing your enthusiasm"
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hi, danke antwort von Ihnen.
Ich bin der Mann, Frau ist fremdgegangen.
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