I have just linked on to the website, but I feel it may be too late. My husband affair cam out 5 months ago, it continues. We go to counselling which tells me to hold on, he'll come around and see the light. I have made the changes that wre necessary according to my husband. And once made I see how I working night shift ran our marriage.

I feel I was implementing PLan A at times, but I do know that I let my emotions get the best of me, which did not help the situation. PLan B seems imposssible since I need to rely on him for childcare, especially when I work, and our closest family is over an hour away.

He has says she is his safety zone. I wish it could be eliminated. If I could just engrave those woeds on my forehead, maybe it would not be so hard.

Our first mediation date is the beginning of November. I want to postpone. I feel the date is putting pressur eon us, especially me. I am not ready for it to be ove

Call the harleys for a phone counseling appointment .... first without your husband.

it is expensive, but ask your H for the $$ ... it is worth it.