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Could this be for real WW to M the OM
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So I heard a good one today
WW who had A starting in July, I had her move out 3 weeks ago, now she spends 1/2 time at her parents and 1/2 with OM (with parents the week she has our son)
Told me today, she and OM are planning on moving our home town and getting married. We haven't even file DV yet.
Is this the real world.
I'm sorry I don't get it. We was I thought in a good marriage "soul mates" yeah right, It now makes me want to puke when I hear that.
Now she says we just clicked, were in love. I told her to hang on till out of the honey moon phaze. She is adamant that their not in that, but feel a deep longing commitment. It just makes me sick.
How can this happen so fast!!! Maybe It's me in the fog???

Me BS 44 WW 38 Together 11 Maried 9 EA 7/9/05 PA 7/23/05 9yr old son + 14 Step S + 21 Step D DV Day to come
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mntony #1498310 10/11/05 02:12 PM
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So I heard a good one today
WW who had A starting in July, I had her move out 3 weeks ago, now she spends 1/2 time at her parents and 1/2 with OM (with parents the week she has our son)
Told me today, she and OM are planning on moving our home town and getting married. We haven't even file DV yet.
Is this the real world.
I'm sorry I don't get it. We was I thought in a good marriage "soul mates" yeah right, It now makes me want to puke when I hear that.
Now she says we just clicked, were in love. I told her to hang on till out of the honey moon phaze. She is adamant that their not in that, but feel a deep longing commitment. It just makes me sick.
How can this happen so fast!!! Maybe It's me in the fog???

Did you read any of the ohter posts here? Seriously dude, your story is NOT unique and is "textbook". Read the web site and the others strories.....you are going to at least get a laugh out of it, becasue EVERYONE'S stories are the same.

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Some people just don't get it, they don't get it that they don't get it.

I had the right to remain silent.......but I didn't have the ability.
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lemonman #1498311 10/11/05 02:19 PM
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Tony,

Well, they all think that they will be in the 5% that make it. Odds are against them, but that alone might not stop them. Hold out as long as you can, maybe the A will run it's course and burn itself out in time.

I am the BW,
He is the FWH
D-Day: 12/02/03

Recovered
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WhoMe #1498312 10/11/05 02:36 PM
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MnTony- I'm in the same boat as you. D-day 7/4/05 WW left 8/21/05 moved in with OM,you see they are in love.DD is with me, wants nothing to do with WW. Ww said she thinks she found something that can make her happy, I guess the 19yrs with me were unhappy.
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bigwave #1498313 10/11/05 03:01 PM
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Thank's bigwave,
Lemonman, yes I have read, even contributed to post's here - lot's-
I just needed a sounding board Is all.
I know how crazy things are and get, yes your right - Most follow the same path - Blame BS - Ilove you, but am not in love with you - And the alien Is for sure within her - But to vent here Is good....
I already knew, what her plan was (in my heart) There was NO WAY she could afford a house by herself, and they long to be together / "Vomit"
I do hope though they are in the 95%. I could not stand seeing them around town or at school with my son.. I can't help It, It's just not right.
Of course I will deal with anything that comes my way, because that's what we BS do... Face REALITY <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Me BS 44 WW 38 Together 11 Maried 9 EA 7/9/05 PA 7/23/05 9yr old son + 14 Step S + 21 Step D DV Day to come

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