Here is my problem,I have a drs Appt coming up.I am a little nervous about going.I have not seen my Dr since My H A came out.He went with me to that Appt He told her what happened she was ticked.Did'nt say much to him besides i could'nt go thro this again.Least to say she was not happy.
I had to go back a few weeks later i went alone.She put my H down so much.Sayong oh i just wanted to hit him and saying alot of negative things about him.And at this time the only thing about the A that was out was that He tried to have sex with this OW.Later it came out they had sex 5 times.
I hav'nt been back since and this was in March.I'm afraid to go back and hear what she has to say.I was on anti-meds but stopped on my own.Which my other Dr said was fine as long as i am doing fine.But i do see this Dr mainly.She follows me for my high blood pressure and a few other things.
My H has changed he is wonderful now.He was'nt even this way before the A.This changed him for the better.
I don't think i want to hear negative stuff when i am almost in this great place and my H is trynig to do everything he can for me.
So do i go in there and let her know he did change and how wonderful he is.Do i tell her i do'nt need rto talk about it.I'm just afraid she will keep putting him down and send me into an attack.

Some Advice Pls
#1mom

Let the DR know that you both are working on a recovery plan. U have the support and help of a well known group called MB and the problem that took him outside the M is gone.

L.

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L.

I'm with Orchid. Tell your doctor about the wonderful thing that has happened in your marriage. Tell her about MB. She could probably pass on the information to other patients.