I am 22 years old my wife and I got married when I was 18 just before I left for the Army. I just returned home from Afghanistain last week because we were haveing some problems and I came home to Hopefully work things out. Well she says she wants a divorce, I was not expecting it at all. She made love to me the first night I got back and told me that she loved me and wanted things to work out. Then next day It was like I was liveing with somoene new. She wanted nothing to do with me and was very rude to me. She said she wanted to go to counsling so she went to the first appointment alone, I guess that was the docs Idea. When she got home she said that the doctor told her she had a lot of mental issues and that she was not going to be able to help the both of us with our marraige. So now she wants a divorce. She seems completly happy. I have done nothing but cry and feel sorry for myself. She has ran me down to her friends telling them lies about me ect. I love her so much and I dont know what to do. I want to believe that she has not cheated on me but I am affraid that may be the case. She says nothing has happend but I am not sure. If it did happen I would just like to know so mabye I can put a little closure to the entire thing. I just dont know what to do from here. I love her so much and it sucks that she does not love me the same. Anyone have any tips on moveing on?

Armyboy:

I am sorry that you are here but this is a great place to be. You might want to post on general questions there is alot more flow there. I am an armywife and I know that the army has alot of places that you and your wife can go to together to get help for your problems. If you suspect your W is having an A or had an A then sit her down and talk it will help. Then take it from there. Its good that you two have already gotten into MC thats a good thing. I hope all works out for you and post in general questions, i hope everything works for you!