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Do I just give up now?
#1502451 10/17/05 09:23 PM
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Found out today, she has been seeing someone, talking to him most everyday. Not the affair guy, just some guy she met. She really thinks she is single now.

Should I just let it go now? Give up? or do I fight like ****** for her. Talking to her tonight about it. No LBs at all, im very understanding. We have been seperated for 5 months now, the divorce in in full swing. But I do love her so much. She means so much to me.

ML or anyone any help on this one? This guy does live far away tho. Not that it means anything. Do I just let her go and go on? I know she still cares about me but how much im not sure.

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Falcon554 #1502452 10/17/05 09:29 PM
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Have you done an excellent Plan A?
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believer #1502453 10/17/05 09:46 PM
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trying, I have LBed a few times here and there and LB really bad 2 weeks ago. This guy she is seeing or talking to is not serious, just some guy she met somewhere. I just think it may be to late. Im trying like ****** to change myself. Trying to keep my temper undercontrol around her. I just dont know anymore.

The first affair lol died a horrid death. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> I dont know what to do now. Just say goodbye to the woman I love, or stay, plan A her to death <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Can you make someone fall back in love with you? I know I fell out of love with her a few years ago but I never thought this woudl happen
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Falcon554 #1502454 10/17/05 09:49 PM
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Well, you just have to go by the book. It is suggested that you do Plan A for several months. Are you up to that?
Re: Do I just give up now?
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Well there seems to be no use now. Seems everything I do back fires on me. Tonight it did to. I just have no chance I think. I thought I was up to it but how can I compete with someone new? I cant, so why bother. No matter what I do she will never give me a chance I can tell so might as well just write her out of my life.

I hate all this crap I just want my life back.

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