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#1502464 10/17/05 10:08 PM
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OK. WW took our child on vacation. WW bought gift for me and was delivered via child. Deep in plan B. Do I accept the gift? I would believe that I do since child gave it to me. Tell me if I am wrong.
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Personally, though I'm no expert on Plan B, I would either (a) accept the gift as far as the child is concerned, but stick it in a drawer and not acknowledge it to WW, or
(b) have it returned via an adult 3rd party with the instruction that you didn't want to refuse it in front of the child; thanks, but no thanks.

Just my guess?

NTL

BW 43 me
FWH 39
M 1992; DD 18. 13
OC 8-05 - no contact
In recovery 8 years
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TreborRose #1502466 10/18/05 02:33 AM
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Was the gift from your child or from WS? How old is the child?

If the child would possibly be hurt by you returning the gift, don't do it.

If the gift was from WS and the child won't notice if you return it, then do return it through a 3rd party.

Me BS 44
XH 45
M 20 years
D19
D12
DDay 11.29.04
Separated 12.29.04
Plan A 24.02.05
Plan B 10.9.05
Plan D 2.2.06
Divorce 13.6.06
OW - former friend and D12's x-godmother (Skunkypoo)
OWH - philander, XH's former best friend (still shares skunkypoo with XH)


Anger = drinking a rat poison and waiting/wishing the rat would notice you drink it and the rat die from it.
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