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Hi. My WW and I have been in I MC for 3 weeks. I have my 4th appt Friday and she does also. I talked to her evening last and we would like to try it jointly after these sessions. Can anyone tell me what to expect? And what have been your experiences with joint MC? Also my WW's actions seem to show remorse but I need to hear it. Full disclosure has not happened either and I feel I need this to heal. Any thoughts?
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What are you seeing but not hearing? Joint session are good if both are finally on the same page. 'til then separate maybe better. The WS state of mind is a competitive one. Don't know why, it's just warped that way. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> L.
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Joint session are good if both are finally on the same page. 'til then separate maybe better. The WS state of mind is a competitive one. Don't know why, it's just warped that way. Wise words that save a lot of futile hopes and money.
Me BS 44
XH 45
M 20 years
D19
D12
DDay 11.29.04
Separated 12.29.04
Plan A 24.02.05
Plan B 10.9.05
Plan D 2.2.06
Divorce 13.6.06
OW - former friend and D12's x-godmother (Skunkypoo)
OWH - philander, XH's former best friend (still shares skunkypoo with XH)
Anger = drinking a rat poison and waiting/wishing the rat would notice you drink it and the rat die from it.
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