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Crazyhurt
#1503462 10/19/05 09:50 AM
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just wanted you to know, i know what you are trying to say with the ignorance is bliss thing.

There were times when i kind of wished i was still in the dark if only because all of it would then be someone elses problem to deal with (h and xOW's) and i could just carry on in my old life.

I am glad that you can see that it is unrealistic in the long run but i do get where you were coming from. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

cheers

Carolyn

BW -33 (Me)
WH-38
M- 4 years/together 10
OC (girl) born 03/03
D-Day 08/02

True friends stab you in the front - Oscar Wilde
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Carolyn73 #1503463 10/19/05 11:08 AM
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Thank you so much. I truly appreciate your understanding spirit.

April - Affair
May - OW tells H that she's pregnant
June - OW's H calls to inform me of affair and pregnancy
August - Present - Working diligently on marriage. In counseling at church.
December - OC Born - NO CONTACT!
May - DNA TEST NEGATIVE - MY H IS NOT THE FATHER. THANK GOD.

My new Title - BS w/ OCS (Betrayed Wife with Other Child Scare)

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