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I am SO Glad you two found this board. I've been talking with you on the other board under different name. I never wanted to mention this board for fear OW would come over here to bash and stir up the pot. This is a great board and there is plenty of Marriage Builders material to help you concentrate on your M and overcome A. I found this board way before the other one and it has been very healing over the past year to be able to talk with someone in the same situation. I know you two have lots of questions and there are many BS on this board that have lots of knowledge and experience to give. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
WS: 37 BS: 36 "highschool sweethearts"
married 8/98
ds: 12/96 dd: 11/99 ds: 5/02
separated 4/04
A summer '04
D-Day: 9/8/2004
recovery begins 10/04
moves back in 11/04
OC born (girl) 4/05 (Legal C 8/05)
"Worry is like a rocking chair. It gives me something to do, but it gets me nowhere."
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I am grateful...Truly.
Could you explain any of these abbreviations to me ? I'm lost..
I see DD used in reference to "doomsday or daughter" ?
Gee, and I thought I was intelligent.
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You'll get the hang of it. I think Dd or DD is in reference to "Darling Daughter"or Ds "darling son" or "Dh" is "darling Husband " or "D$%@ Husband" depending on how you're feeling that day :-). Most of the others seem logical. CS-child support, A-affair, D-divorce. What does KWIM mean though, I still don't know that one though. LOL-"Laughing out Loud" <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
WS: 37 BS: 36 "highschool sweethearts"
married 8/98
ds: 12/96 dd: 11/99 ds: 5/02
separated 4/04
A summer '04
D-Day: 9/8/2004
recovery begins 10/04
moves back in 11/04
OC born (girl) 4/05 (Legal C 8/05)
"Worry is like a rocking chair. It gives me something to do, but it gets me nowhere."
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kwim = know what i mean. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />
BW -33 (Me)
WH-38
M- 4 years/together 10
OC (girl) born 03/03
D-Day 08/02
True friends stab you in the front - Oscar Wilde
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I'm so glad for these boards, they help so much. I won't forget the other board either, but all the info and support I can get, I need.
Thank you so much.....
April - Affair
May - OW tells H that she's pregnant
June - OW's H calls to inform me of affair and pregnancy
August - Present - Working diligently on marriage. In counseling at church.
December - OC Born - NO CONTACT!
May - DNA TEST NEGATIVE - MY H IS NOT THE FATHER. THANK GOD.
My new Title - BS w/ OCS (Betrayed Wife with Other Child Scare)
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