Sorry for the TJ albany!

B!!!
I'm still here <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" />
you are in my thoughts too! and JT! and Gio! and Beth!

hey! if you are insane ... what am I???? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" />

AHHHH, the group is all here!!! I guess that makes us OLDIES now. bbbaaaahhhhh
Sunny

Hey Mily,

Good to hear from u!!!!

aahhhh....... I think maybe there are 2 straight jackets out there w/ our names on them. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />

Have a wonderful holiday!

Hi,

I have not been checking up in awhile, but am always thinking of you ladies. I miss each of you and our little support group. I will be checking in a little more since you girls have returned for a spell.

AD, Sunny, Albany, Mily, BBG, Kimmy, and KT I miss you all desperately and pray that all is well with you.

I am busy right now, but will check in again later.


Love ya lots,

JT

Okay,

Where are you girls??? I was hoping someone or one of you would have taking a browse through by now.

I'll check in again later,

JT

[color:"blue"] Well, hello JT....

Like I mentioned..I RARELY check in here anymore.

All is well w/ us...especially since going NC last year, actually. It's been a bit over a year I guess now.

But maybe you already knew that? I don't know.

My ktbunch is getting bigger eveyrday.

If you have my email somewhere...feel free to use it...it's STILL the same as always.....

xoxox
ktbunch[/color]

KT,

I am glad that everything has been going well with you and yours. I miss you girls!!! I don't still have your email addy. I have no way of contacting any of you girls anymore, my home computer had a melt down and I have been lost.


Take care and I hope to hear from you again - soon!!!

JT

Hey!

Just wanted to check and see if you were browsing the site. Don't just lurk respond! I am just trying to check on you to see how everything was going. how were the holidays?

Keep your head up and look in often,

JT <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

[color:"blue"]JT...I'm sorry I know I typed a response the other day...don't know what happen to it. Anyway, hopefully you will see this. Here goes again: e-me @ ktbunch~at~hotmail~dot~com.
Hope to hear from you.

xoxoxo
kt [/color]

albany... i am living in almost the same ****** that you are and you are right when he wants someplace to come back to.

my husband too is trying to invite himself back home -- at this point i don't want him back because he has done nothing to prove that he is changing -- our battle at the moment is over access to his cell phone records and his being 100% accountable. he makes comments like "you can let it all go that easily?" when i tell him that i really don't have much to say to him until he gives up the passwords and becomes fully accountable. he has asked me out to lunch and out to the movies but i don't even want to go there until i sense that he is still not doing the same stuff (talking w/ OW behind my back regardless if they have an OC, and talking to other women on the phone and only god knows what else!!!)

if you have to sell to get out of debt and get away from him do it, then you keep the upper hand in this whole thing. my WH is talking that same nonsense about moving back in, retaking his marraige, going to counseling, etc... but i haven't seen anything concrete to make me think he is remotely serious. he is misrable, doesn't have 2 nickles to rub together, OW slapped him for CS which is pretty substantial and we aren't getting our fair share (which will change soon because i am going to file for CS on him -- he does contribute now but not to the extent that i think he should or that the state's calculating format says he should be paying... in the end what i hope for is that it reduces the amount OW is getting... there goes that hate thing again!!)

i would love suggestions on how to handle my mess from anyone.... appropriate boundaries and contact w/ OW....

stay strong albany!

today will be a better day. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />